Let's Talk Pillow Talk? ( Vamos Ter Uma Conversa Intima?)

In the last conversation, I talked about Why are people still ashamed to talk about sex, especially women?

Today I want to talk about sexual desire.

Why do men feel more like having sex than women?

Well, men are encouraged to have and to perform more permissive attitudes toward sexuality, since women have been educated to maintain a more conservative pattern.

Sexual desire in men seems to be closely related to sexual behavior, such as pleasure and orgasm. For women, sexual activity does not seem to be the only goal for the '' satisfaction of desire ''. They seek more intimacy and emotional closeness.

If you are married or have a partner for a long time, you already noticed how things has changed through the years. Men, after + -3 years of been together, stop all that romantic approach. Even with the busy life, they use sex as"stress relief".

Women in the other hand, need a little bit of romance and then have  sex. They want to feel wanted and just going direct to the sex without a little intimacy doesn't work for them.Well, I am talking about here sex on the daily basis.

Then, I go back again on the topic of dialogue. Talk, talk and talk. Especially in bed ladies. And we need to discover our own body. We need to be responsible for our on pleasure. We need to learn to stimulated ourselves! And only then, we can teaching our partner to do so the way we want it. And will be a gain gain situation!

Lets break this taboo about sex,this is only to be talk amongest men.




Na última conversa, falei sobre o Por que as pessoas ainda têm vergonha de falar sobre sexo, especialmente mulheres?

Hoje quero falar sobre o desejo sexual.

Por que os homens sentem mais vontade de fazer sexo do que mulheres?

Bem, os homens são encorajados a ter e a realizar atitudes mais permissivas em relação à sexualidade, já que as mulheres foram educadas para manter um padrão mais conservado.

O desejo sexual em homens parece esta estreitamente relacionado com o comportamento sexual, como o prazer e orgasmo. Para as mulheres, a atividade sexual não parece ser o único objetivo para a ''satisfação do desejo''. Elas almejam mais intimidade e proximidade emocional.

Se você é casado(a) ou tem um(a) parceiro(a) há muito tempo, você já percebeu como as coisas mudaram ao longo dos anos. Os homens, depois de + -3 anos juntos, param toda aquela aproximação romântica. Mesmo com a vida agitada, eles usam o sexo como um "alívio de estresse".

As mulheres, por outro lado, precisam de um pouco de romance e depois fazem sexo. Elas querem se sentir queridas e só indo direto para o sexo sem um pouco de intimidade não funciona para elas.Bem, eu estou falando aqui de sexo no dia a dia.

Então, volto novamente ao tópico do diálogo.Fale, fale e fale. Especialmente na cama ladies. Precisamos descobrir nosso próprio corpo. Precisamos ser responsáveis por nosso prazer. Precisamos aprender a nos estimular! E só então, podemos ensinar nosso parceiro a fazê-lo da maneira que queremos. E será uma situação de ganho ganho!

Vamos quebrar este tabu sobre sexo, isso é apenas para ser conversa entre os homens.


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